Seven Chicks and a Guy

2010-11-21T09:53:00.000-08:00

SERIOUSLY LONG BLOG- I know unusual!

For our upcoming trip to Venezuela just Tony and I are going, we would love for the girls to see where I grew up, and meet family that I haven't even seen since we left when I was just a 12 years old but for safety reasons it will just be us.

In preparation for said trip I've taken a lot of time to prepare and think (too much actually, it has me FREAKED out just a little). Actually a lot, so much that I asked the girls this morning "if something were to happen to both mami and papi who they would prefer to live with"? It doesn't help that just last night I watched the movie Life as we know it.

their answers as my mom use to say "straight outta the mouth of babes:

Sierra- Vanessa and Sean Paul

Chloe- Vanessa then grandma

Naomi- grandma. Naomi came back awhile later saying she wanted to change her answer to Vanessa.

Amelia- I forget her name... what's her name?...your sister. me: Vanessa? her: yeaaah,
me: and your second choice? her: Troy and Crystal.

Teresa- I was thinking about Vanessa but I'm not sure. The first time I asked her she said she didn't know after a while she came back to let me know what she thought of.

Rose- Vanessa (she didn't hesitate for even a second, this girl has always known what she wants) I asked her for her second choice also and she told me grandma. She also came back later to tell me she changed her second choice to Christopher "because Gabriella (her cousin) is cute".

Their answers where very interesting to me. Vanessa, my only sister who is 2 years older , has always been my first choice. There are soooo many things I could say about her, she is so very patient, organized, clean, I admire her relationship with her husband (who loves his family so much. I've always watched him and noticed what a hard worker he is, I love to see him play and joke with the kids and how he always puts my sister first). My sister is the best mother/person I've ever known and would be just who I would want for my girls if I wasn't around. I would say my ONLY hesitation is that they have stopped going to church which is not meant to judge in any way!

As of now they are slated to go to Troy and Crystal, Tony's brother and wife. We chose them years ago over my sister,because they are active in church... not so sure that's enough for me anymore. Don't get me wrong, I would be crushed if they didn't grow up in the church and I love Troy and Crystal. I just don't believe THEY are the BEST choice, I don't believe their family dynamics fit with ours.

With this dilemma I am left wondering what to do before I go, change the will or leave it??

if you're bored or curious how bad things are here is a small excerpt from the gov. travel site- VERY interesting stuff!

SAFETY AND SECURITY: Violent crime in Venezuela is pervasive, both in the capital, Caracas, and in the interior. The country’s overall per ca pita murder rate is cited as one of the top five in the world. The Venezuelan National Counter Kidnapping Commission was created in 2006, and since then, official statistics have shown alarming increases in reported kidnappings throughout the country. In fact, kidnappings in 2009 have increased anywhere from 40-60 percent from the previous year. Surveys show that the overwhelming majority of kidnappings and other major crimes are not reported to the police. Armed robberies take place throughout the city, including areas generally presumed safe and frequented by tourists. Well-armed criminal gangs operate widely, often setting up fake police checkpoints. Only a very small percentage of crimes result in trials and convictions.

Travel to and from Maiquetía Airport, the international airport serving Caracas, can be dangerous, and corruption at the airport itself is rampant. Both arriving and departing travelers, including foreigners, have been victims of personal property theft and muggings in the airport. The embassy has received multiple, credible reports that individuals wearing what appear to be official uniforms or other credentials are involved in facilitating or perpetrating these crimes. For this reason, U.S. citizen travelers should be wary of all strangers, even those in official uniform or carrying official identification, and should not pack valuable items or documents in checked luggage. Valuable documents and personal items should be kept in carry-on luggage. The embassy has also received multiple, credible reports of victims of “express kidnappings” occurring at the airport, in which individuals are taken to make purchases or to withdraw as much money as possible from ATMs, often at gunpoint. Furthermore, there are known drug trafficking groups working from the airport. Travelers should not accept packages from anyone and should keep their luggage with them at all times.

The embassy also has received reports of uniformed airport officials attempting to extort money from travelers, including U.S. citizens, as they go through the normal check-in and boarding process for departing flights. Other reports from U.S. citizens and U.S. government officials state that uniformed individuals have approached travelers immediately upon entering the terminal when exiting Venezuela through Maiquetia Airport. These uniformed individuals reportedly may ask travelers where they are traveling and then escort them to a separate area to inspect their bags for illegal drugs or money. In certain cases U.S. citizens have reported that they were forced to sign documents in Spanish that they did not understand. Travelers should not sign documents that they do not understand, but if they feel they must, they should sign “I do not understand this document” or “I cannot read the above statement” as part of their signature.

The road between Maiquetía Airport and Caracas is known to be particularly dangerous. Visitors traveling this route at night have been kidnapped and held captive for ransom in roadside huts that line the highway. Because of the frequency of robberies at gunpoint, travelers are encouraged to arrive and depart only during daylight hours. If not, travelers should use extra care both within and outside the airport. The embassy strongly advises that all arriving passengers make advance plans for transportation from the airport to their place of lodging. If possible, travelers should arrange to be picked up at the airport by someone who is known to them or at least try to caravan in known groups en route to Caracas. Travelers should be aware of chokepoints inside tunnels and avoid obstacles in the road.

The embassy has received frequent reports of armed robberies in taxicabs going to and from the airport at Maiquetía. There is no foolproof method of knowing whether a taxi driver at the airport is reliable. The fact that a taxi driver presents a credential or drives an automobile with official taxi license plates marked libre is no longer an indication of reliability. Incidents of taxi drivers in Caracas overcharging, robbing, and injuring passengers are common. Travelers should take care to use radio-dispatched taxis or those from reputable hotels. Travelers should call a 24-hour radio-dispatched taxi service from a public phone lobby or ask hotel, restaurant, or airline representatives to contact a licensed cab company for them.

While visiting Venezuela, U.S. citizens are encouraged to carry as little U.S. currency as possible and to avoid wearing expensive or flashy watches and jewelry. Due to the poor security situation, the embassy does not recommend changing money at the international airport. Visitors should bring a major credit card, but should be aware of widespread pilfering of credit card data to make unauthorized transactions. Travelers’ checks are not recommended as they are honored in only a few locations. It is possible to exchange U.S. currency at approved exchange offices near major hotel chains in Caracas (personal checks are not accepted) and at commercial banks with some restrictions. Due to currency regulations, hotels cannot provide currency exchange. There are ATMs throughout Venezuela. Malfunctions are common, however, and travelers should be careful to use only those in well-lit public places. ATM data has also been hacked and used to make unauthorized withdrawals from user’s accounts. ATMs are also targeted by street gangs in order to rob people making withdrawals.

2010-11-17T19:37:00.001-08:00

Kids Funnies
In the car on the way home from the gym.
Naomi- you know that girl? Her name IS Sam
Sierra- no, what girl?
Naomi- you know?... the one in the leo!

2010-04-17T22:27:00.000-07:00

I got a phone call not minutes after Tony left for work this afternoon from, Tony, to tell me he backed in to the Escalade that was parked behind the truck. Boo hoo! Literally!! He quickly promised to fix it ASAP. We'll see.

2010-04-14T17:35:00.000-07:00

While wiping Roey's bottom today she told me "sometimes when I poop I have to make a mad face... cause sometimes I can't get my poopies out". Allrighty then!

2010-04-06T18:01:00.000-07:00

alright clearly I wasn't thinking straight, my apologies to my really great friends- who obviously care!

It should have read something like this:

I'm severely depressed we missed our flight and cried a lot. Too bad I don't have psychic friends (mind reading would have worked too) because they are so awesome they would have taken me out anywhere to cheer me up.

2010-03-22T08:56:00.001-07:00

I've come to the realization that I'm gonna have to find myself a really good network of friends, it's a must for me! I could have used a pick me up on Saturday instead I spent the day sulking until Tony, he's so awesome, finally said that's enough and took me to a movie and then dinner.

In case anybody cares we missed our flight to Europe Friday morning. We got there 2 1/2hrs. early and the airport was crazy mad. We reserved our tickets through Continental so naturally went to their counter (after waiting in their long line) to be informed we were on a United flight (their line was even longer). Security was just as out of control, needless to say we arrived at the gate to find it already closed- the flight was full. Come to find out that they airlines over book their flights by around 20 people and they weren't interested in helping us since we were flying on miles. Anyway it would have been near impossible to get 8 people on another flight. Their words not mine. So this Spring Break is a wash, we will be trying for Summer break now.

2009-12-07T20:23:00.001-08:00

My little gobblins!

2009-12-07T20:17:00.000-08:00

Ok it's been a few days so here it is.
149 lbs Saturday
147.5 lbs. Sunday
149 lbs. this morning
and that is it

2009-12-04T06:48:00.000-08:00

149 lbs. and that's after having dinner at Cici's with the activity day girls, we went to the interfaith nativity- theater in the round it was way cool.

2009-12-03T06:17:00.000-08:00

249 lbs. I did pretty well yesterday but since I'm up you know that I did have a few things I could have skipped.

2009-12-02T19:47:00.000-08:00

248 lbs. I did super good yesterday!

2009-12-01T06:41:00.000-08:00

248 lbs. Let's see... I want 2 Mcdoubles, 2 yogurt parfaits (for Teresa and Rose), and a number 12, at least I had a diet coke, I did take the buns off too. Then at dinner I nibbled on a few chips and sloppy Joes. I am down today but tomorrow is another day my guess would be up again.

2009-11-30T07:51:00.000-08:00

250 lbs. Cookies #@!%

2009-11-29T19:11:00.000-08:00

Tonight I got a note from Naomi and Amelia saying how they love Cade Telford oh and how McKenzie (Brackney) does too. Their exact words in a high pitched voice and in unison "he's so dreamy". Yikes!! Is this normal? and why aren't Sierra and Chloe doing this instead of my 7 and 9 year old?

2009-11-29T06:36:00.001-08:00

248 lbs.

2009-11-28T06:11:00.000-08:00

250 lbs. I fell a bit like a yo yo. I did really well and just had a slice of pumpkin pie with some cool whipp (which is actually allowed). Tomorrow is a new day.

2009-11-27T07:29:00.003-08:00

We'll just leave it at it was Thanksgiving yesterday.

Week 3 weight= 248 lbs. loss total of 9.5 lbs.

2009-11-26T07:13:00.000-08:00

Extactic is the word of the day. I was practically a saint yesterday and it shows I weighed in at 247 lbs!!

2009-11-25T07:09:00.000-08:00

I didn't weigh yesterday because I was only going to do it a once a week (a friends suggestions) but I have been awful, I need to be more accountable. This morning 250 lbs. I was pretty good yesterday, 3 cookies, 4 fries (we ate dinner at Red Robins), and I sipped down some of Rose's soda. I know if I get back as strict as I was it will continue melting off. I'm not worried about tomorrow, maybe I should be!?!

2009-11-23T08:13:00.000-08:00

Going back down 249 lbs. Weird though yesterday was baaadddd. Lets see where to start, had a little bit of Halloween candy left in my church bag so I ate a mini bag of reeses, m&m's, and payday bar, then I had 4 cheetos, and a few homemade baked fries, and a big bowl of chocolate ice cream. I am crazy confused but need to keep on with diet.

2009-11-22T09:22:00.000-08:00

I am back at 250 lbs. no cheats yesterday either. I've been skipping breakfast the past couple of days because we ran out of eggs so I just ate a handful of pistachios and a cheese stick but I think my body Isn't liking that.

2009-11-21T08:21:00.000-08:00

I don't know if disappointed is the word but I gained weight, I'm at 250.5 lbs. I feel a bit like I'm on a roller coaster ride except its not my favorite one! I did cheat yesterday but I only had 3 cookies, no milk this time. Darn school cookie dough fundraiser. No more cheating for me.

2009-11-20T08:49:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I did really well until the evening when I had 3 cookies and a small cup of milk, if I'd skipped that I may have lost that half of pound and made it an even 10 lbs.

Week 2 weight= 148 lbs. Loss total of 9.5 lbs.

2009-11-19T06:25:00.000-08:00

Weighed in at 248.5 lbs. today.

2009-11-18T06:28:00.000-08:00

That's more like it 248.5 lbs. today!!!

2009-11-17T20:58:00.000-08:00

What in the world?? Weighed in at 251.50 lbs. not sure what happened since I didn't cheat

2009-11-16T13:34:00.000-08:00

Week 1 weight= 151.5 lbs. Loss total of 6 lbs.

I went to Breckenridge with some friends for the weekend so I did not have access to a scale.
Sat. No weigh in but I didn't cheat.
Sun. No weigh in, I did have some of Allyson's great, sweet, chewy snack mix- not too much though.
Mon. weigh in at 250 lbs. so the weekend wasn't a wash- thank goodness!

2009-11-13T16:44:00.001-08:00

well I didn't cheat at all but gained 1/2 pound 251.5 lbs.

2009-11-12T06:30:00.000-08:00

No weight loss (or gain) today same as yesterday 251 lbs.

2009-11-11T06:15:00.000-08:00

251 lbs. holy cow! can it be true or is the scale way messed up? (I hope not!!)

2009-11-10T23:20:00.000-08:00

I weighed in at 253 lbs. I didn't cheat any today so it will be interesting to see how much if any I lost.

2009-11-09T08:49:00.000-08:00

Well I started the long overdue South Beach diet Nov. 6th
Friday my first weigh in 257.5 lbs.
I did really well all day Friday, but then for date night we were rushed and I ended up eating 3 slices of cheese pizza and a large piece of brownie.
Sat. I was good all day but I did have a good size piece of brownie
Sun. was even better I was good my only deviation was a tiny bag of reeses pieces- blasted Halloween candy!!
Mon. even with my set backs I lost weight when I weighed in this morning. Boy I really needed that I was feeling soooo discouraged yesterday I'm at 254.5 lbs. now.

If all goes well you'll be seeing less of me soon!

2009-11-09T08:19:00.000-08:00

Tony bought a fully restored 1933 Chevy to drive around on nice days. We were picking Sierra up from school last week and Teresita said to me "mami, we have the coolest car in the whole wide world" then yesterday we were getting ready to leave for church and Naomi came in from the garage and asked if were driving the cool car to church. They love bouncing around town in it.

2009-10-17T22:12:00.000-07:00

2009-06-24T09:33:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I was finishing making the crafts for bunko prizes and Rose was keeping me company.
"Mami what are these for?"
For bunko, you know mami is having a party here tonight.
"Oooh a party"
no it's for mami and her friends.
"Will Wendy be coming?"
No.
" I love Wendy the bestest!"

The Howlett's were in town 7/08

2008-07-16T10:31:00.000-07:00